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Who Are You When "Us" Ends? with Nikki Parkinson

Who Are You When "Us" Ends? with Nikki Parkinson
October 20, 2026

Nikki Parkinson is a divorce doula or separation strategist with a long background in family law, as well as personal experience navigating her own painful divorce. She joins Brian to explore what happens to our sense of self when a marriage ends, and how separation changes our relationships with family, friends, and community. They also discuss why divorce is so often framed as failure, and whether telling a different story can help us move through it with more compassion and respect. Visit Nikki at divorceandseparationhub.com to learn more about her work and listen to her podcast, and find out more about Brian Lowery at brianloweryphd.com.

Brian Lowery

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Brian Lowery is a Professor of Organizational Behavior and a social psychologist by training. He received his doctorate from UCLA in 2001 with a minor in statistical methods.

Nikki Parkinson

Nikki Parkinson

Divorce Doula and Separation Strategist
Nikki Parkinson

Nikki Parkinson is a divorce doula and separation strategist with more than two decades of experience in family law.

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